A lot of what you say about Support was what I expected to find in residency. But I was unusual in that I never really wanted to convert my husband I was worried I'd have to divorce him if he turned true Mormon and he didn't need me to believe way he does. I must admit that this life comes with a lot of surprises. You do not want hear in jeans if you are planning to eat at a fancy restaurant. I have already been told I will "lose" to medicine if I put pressure on him. We can't tell you that. Little did I know that at least some of these "emergencies" were actually rendezvous with his affair partner. Log in without password NEW. Having seen many examples of the disaster it becomes when a member spouse pushes, coerces, ultimatums the non-member spouse into being baptized, I have very assiduously steered clear of those methods from the start. You will have to convert and betray your ideals to keep the relationship alive.


Thanks - I searched but couldn't find it. Be thankful that you chose a man with passion and drive; realizing that his energies will not always focused on you. I dated non mormon men. Attacking other posters is not allowed, but this forum recognizes the difference between a belief and the person holding to that belief. Just let things keep going. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. Now I don't get offended when he falls asleep when I come over - in fact, he puts his head in my lap and I run my hands through his hair until he falls asleep. The intrusion into my life of an apparently irrational belief that was immune to my influence would have been felt more keenly every year.
Honestly, you are probably the only person who she has ever known to outwardly label themselves an atheist. How do you really feel about that. I wouldn't purposefully subject my daughters to that BS. I tried my best, every bit of me….
The essay on race and the priesthood claims that Brigham Young prophesied that blacks would receive the priesthood someday, but if you actually follow the link in the footnotes you will see that he was misquoted. I have had more than one girl, who I had definite chemsitry with, who the girl really liked me and we had deep and intense conversations as well as a real physichal connection to. You I think are ok with that. Learning from a young age that any religion will do means that your children almost certainly will ultimately believe that any religion will do. Her Religion is more important than you will ever be Her Religion comes first and deep down, she will come to hate you for not accepting joining her religion. Needless to say, his top choices were not near my family and friends. While there are some differences noted here, in many ways you should treat them the same way you would girls of other faiths. Is it fair for me to ask him to put more time and effort into our relationship.